T. Berry Brazelton, M.D.
"When we strengthen families, we ultimately strengthen the community. Our goal is that parents everywhere work with supportive providers, feel confident in their parenting role, and form strong, resilient attachments with their children. To help achieve this, providers must be responsive to parents, knowledgeable about child development, and eager to see every parent succeed."
"Parents don't make mistakes because they don't care, but because they care so deeply."
Lilian Katz, PhD
"Children, all children, are born with the disposition to make sense of their experiences. This is also what scientists do-make sense of experiences by experimenting, by utilizing the scientific process. You can see this disposition even in babies. A 4-monthold will drop a spoon and watch as Grandma picks it up-over and over again. She is a scientist, testing her environment to see what happens. Our job, as adults who work with young children, is to make sure that we do not damage this disposition."
"Each of us must come to care about everyone else's children. We must recognize that the welfare of our children is intimately linked to the welfare of all other people's children. After all, when one of our children needs life-saving surgery, someone else's child will perform it. If one of our children is harmed by violence, someone else's child will be responsible for the violent act. The good life for our own children can be secured only if a good life is also secured for all other people's children."
Sandy Escobido
"We as professionals in the Early Childhood Field have an opportunity to shape a child's life for the better and so that's what makes me passionate about this field."
Renatta M. Cooper
"...it's not all about you. You got to take your ego out of it and think about what's best for this child."
Friday, September 30, 2011
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Personal Childhood Web
My childhood relationships have shaped who I am today. I carry within me the memories and values of those who cared for me during my developmental years. The love and devotion they displayed and gave me set the stage for what I have become.
My Father
My Father
My Mother
My Mother was the most influential, powerful, strong willed, compassionate, giving, and unique person I have ever known. She was a tiny woman standing five (5) feet tall who by herself raised 7 girls. She ran the farm and cooked at the local high school. She sewed all our clothes and ensured we never went without. We may not have had all the latest fashions or the finest cars but we had plenty to eat, clothes to wear, and a comfortable loving home to come back to. I was born with a hearing problem having 70% hearing loss in one ear and 50% hearing loss in the other. I didn't know there was sound on the television until I was 3 years old. My mother worked countless hours with me so I could integrate fully into society and be a part and not feel different. She worked with me on my abc's and sounds every night. My husband still says I can't carry a tune in a bucket but at least I can hear and enunciate clearly due to my Mother's devotion and dedication to me. She taught me to cook, sew, clean, work in a garden, take care of livestock, ride horses, have fun, enjoy life, and have a purpose. I was able to travel with my mother in her later life to many places throughout the U.S., Canada, and of course Hawaii (yes I know it is in the U.S.). We enjoyed each other's company and cared for one another after my divorce. We lived together for 7 years until I remarried. She had diabetes, loss of sight, and numerous health problems, which eventually claimed her life in 2003. She was my best friend and my mentor and I miss her dearly.
Grandfather and Grandmother Forbes
My Sisters
My sisters have had a deep impact on my life because they were, and still are, my mentors, friends, and of course loving family. I was unable to have children so they allowed me to be part of their children's lives. I still get Mother's Day cards from some of them. This unselfish act has taken some of the pain and tears away from my inability to have children. When I need advice or just a kind word I can call any of them and receive the reassurance I need to make my day better. Sometimes out of the blue I will get a call from one of them asking me what my problem is. They have a special built in 6th sense knowing when I need a pick me up. My husband moved me around and this last move asked where I would like to live. I told him closer to family and the kind hearted person that he is he found employment by one of my sisters and moved us to
this new location which is closer to most of them. When I had trouble with my blog my sister came over and spent hours with me trying to figure it all out. Finally a call to her son in law and some help from my husband we were able to figure it out. My husband said if we had quit chatting and just worked at it we could have figured it out on our own. We love to talk about everything. When I was a child and my mother was giving birth to my younger sister, my older sisters made sure my homework was done, I was fed, and in bed on time. They were loving, supporting, and kind to me just like my mother was. When they married they made sure that their husbands were approved by all of us. We have family reunions and take turns hosting/planning them. They are mostly gab sessions with each other and lots of good food. We love each other and carry on our Mother's tradition of Family First.
Friday, September 16, 2011
A Story That Fuels My Passion for Early Childhood
This story just happened a week ago. I want to tell it so I will always remember why I want to mentor and teach adults about the needs of children and how they learn. Everywhere I turn I see those who are so concerned with “teaching to the test” that they forget about the teachable moments.
Here it goes. Last Thursday at early morning recess, Juan came to me and beckoned that I look at the treasure on his right index finger. With excitement in his voice, he said, “Look teacher, look”. Other children gathered, and I responded with awe in my voice as I described the most incredible caterpillar to the children. In my mind I could see how the whole process should happen to make this a teachable moment for the children. We talked about the process of how the caterpillar would eat, eat, and eat until he would form a chrysalis and how in the spring it would become a beautiful butterfly. I encouraged Juan to take it to his teacher so they could find a home for it in their classroom and watch the wonderful process unfold. The children appeared excited about the venture. Later that day at noon recess, I found Juan and asked if they were able to find homage for their caterpillar. Seaming somewhat discouraged, he replied that his teacher made him discard the caterpillar by the tree.
This would have been a wonderful event for the children to witness. Instead, the teacher chose to do what was convenient for her instead of fostering what could have been a great learning experience for all the children in her class.
My Favorite Quotes
I couldn't choose, so here they are:
If you wish to study men you must not neglect to mix with the society of children.
Our greatest natural resource is the minds of our children.
You are worried about seeing him spend his early years in doing nothing. What! Is it nothing to be happy? Nothing to skip, play, and run around all day long? Never in his life will he be so busy again. ~Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Emile, 1762
If you wish to study men you must not neglect to mix with the society of children.
Jesse Torrey
Our greatest natural resource is the minds of our children.
Walt Disney
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Hoping this is all correct
I have had a terrible time getting this blog up and running. I should have bought Blogging for Dummies but I'm not certain it is available. I hope all you are doing well and hope to hear from you soon.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Greetings Everyone!
This is going to be a great time in my life. I know that getting to know each of you will bring many blessings. I look forward to this time of learning, sharing, engaging, and supporting each other. Together we can do it!!!
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